ROCHESTER -- Priests spend much of their time
praying for other people. But how frequently do they seek prayers
for their own selves?
Not all that often, Mary Reilich and Mary Sanders contend. Yet
both women feel that priests are greatly in need of prayers.
“There’s not enough praying going on, to protect them with
prayers,” Sanders said.
Through prayer, Reilich said, “We want to see the priests’
problems turn around” in addition to lending support to keep them
strong.
Reilich and Sanders are among the originators of the “Monthly
Prayer Request for Priests” in the Rochester Diocese, which has
existed here for approximately 10 years. The calendar can be handily
accessed on the Internet by visiting www.saintannechurch.org
and clicking on the “Priest’s calendar” link.
Each day of the month bears a different priest’s name -- either
an active or retired diocesan priest, or an order priest serving
locally. Groups are sometimes prayed for, such as “vocations and
seminarians” on Sept. 29 and “all missionaries” on Sept. 30. Also
appearing on the Web site is a special prayer for priests and
vocations. Among the other suggested forms of prayer and sacrifice
are Mass, rosary, adoration, a Divine Mercy chaplet and fasting.
Sanders noted that the initiative is a good fit for retired
people who might have some extra time to spend, saying, “I’m sure
they’ll sit with their rosary and pray for the priest.” But she also
pointed out that many senior citizens are not computer-savvy, so
it’s crucial for calendars to be distributed in other ways as well.
Among the possibilities are printing them in the parish bulletin --
which a few diocesan parishes already do -- or making photocopies of
computer printouts and leaving them at church entrances.
Reilich and Sanders said the calendar is employed regularly by
rosary and adoration-chapel groups. They’d like to see the exposure
widen, particularly in family residences.
“At supper, you could pray for one priest a day by saying a Hail
Mary or Our Father. That would be a powerhouse of prayer. I’ll bet
you a good number would do it,” said Sanders, adding that involving
young people in these prayers “would open the door for talk about
vocations.”
Vocations are crucial in this day and age, as the ever-shortening
rotation for the monthly prayer request would indicate. Reilich said
that many priests’ names appear on the calendar more than once per
year, whereas in the beginning it was difficult to fit them into a
365-day rotation.
The prayer-request calendar is an extension of an international
apostolate that has existed since 1990. It began locally after
Reilich, a parishioner of St. Anne in Rochester, floated the idea
past acquaintances from various prayer groups, including Sanders.
For the next few years, the calendar was circulated via mail,
bulletins and a regular display advertisement in the Catholic
Courier. Reilich said ads were discontinued because financial
support fell off -- but Father Frank Lioi, pastor of St. Anne at the
time, had an idea.
“Father Lioi said, ‘Why don’t you put it on the Internet?”
Reilich recalled.
The prayer requests have evolved smoothly to cyberspace, thanks
to some loyal volunteers handling technical matters.
“It’s a team project,” Reilich said.
Reilich continues to select the priests’ names, using the
Official Diocesan Directory for reference. Sanders, a parishioner at
Irondequoit’s St. Thomas the Apostle, recently took over
coordinating duties due to health concerns on Reilich’s part.
One of Sanders’ responsibilities is to write each priest
individually and remind him when his “day” is coming up. She and
Reilich said many priests are genuinely touched when they hear that
specific days of prayer have been devoted to them.
The ministry occasionally receives checks from priests, as well
as donations from other supporters. These contributions are crucial
in covering mailing expenses: In addition to keeping in touch with
priests, the ministry also sends copies of prayer-request calendars
to anybody who asks for them.
Anybody who would like a copy of the calendar, or who is
interested in making a donation, may contact Reilich at 585/473-4358
or Sanders at 585/467-2355.